By SheelaR

I recently engage in a rather spirited debate with a group of friends about human feelings and emotions; mostly notably, the feeling of love. We debated the differences between men and women and how they process this feeling. I’m generally of the mindset that there are no restrictions or timeline for falling in love. I believe that love can happen at first site. Although, it may not be reciprocated on both ends, it is entirely possible. Some of us also believe that love can be experienced even before there is a physical meeting. It was at the point in the discussion that the group went from the men versus the women, into an all out war; many sides were taken.

We all have different perceptions about what it takes to fall in love. No two women feel the same way, nor is it the same for every man. The one thing we did agree upon is… We fall in love with the way a person makes us feel, mostly about ourselves. We fall in love when they make use feel safe; when they support our dreams; listen to our problems; when we share mutual interest; when they inspire a feeling of absolute trust; and say all the things we need to hear, when we need to hear it the most. Love is a feel good feeling, and we can all agree on that.

I’d like to hear your love story. Feel free to share it with me and I’ll share it with my readers. “Do all things in love.”