By SheelaR

There are a lot of seriously damaged people in the world. If you are a man and you blame women for all your problems, then you should consider getting some professional help. If you are a woman doing the same thing…the advice is the same for you. If you must make someone responsible for screwing you up, blame your mother or your father. The rest of us are not your problem, you are.

Stop placing blame at the feet of others. If you’re a woman and you support and encourage men in their infantile finger pointing,…you need to stop too. That goes for the fellas as well. We are all responsible for our individual behaviors. Women nor men alone, are not responsible for all the ills of the world or their communities. There is plenty of blame to go around. We cannot began to address what is wrong if we’re too busy pointing fingers at each other.

Men… Single mothers did not become single mothers by themselves. Ladies, do a better job of choosing a father for your future children. It’s called “PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY.” Having said that, let me say this… We all make mistakes and missteps in our lives. Not all relationships are going to turn out just fine. When that something right goes wrong, put on your big girl/big boy pants, and move right along. Don’t get caught up in a perpetual habit of blaming the other person. Some shit just isn’t meant to be.