Men don’t gossip…or do they?

By SheelaR

One of my biggest pet peeves…men that gossip and talk out of turn.  Gossiping is traditionally a behavior we expect from women.  However, social media has exposed men as bigger gossips.  There no real benefit to gossiping on any level.  Some men simply find a quiet unspoken enjoyment in it. It makes my skin crawl.

Men engaging in behaviors that we generally associate with women is by far the biggest turnoff. They will always give you some half-ass reason as to why they do it, but the simple truth is…they’re in possession of more estrogen than some women. I don’t like male bashing…but this is worthy of the moment.

Gossiping is destructive and hurtful.  If you feel the need to strengthen your male bonds…go fishing and talk about cars. There is no useful benefit in engaging in such behavior. You’re not doing anyone a service, you’re simply exposing yourself as bitchy and petty, and no one should ever associate the word “man” with “bitchy” and “petty.” Sharing what you think are hurtful or embarrassing things about other people, says more about your character than theirs.

I’m certain that they sale boxers in your size, so please take off your pretty lacy red panties and matching bra set, put down the tea…and go watch a football or hockey game. If that’s too much testosterone for you…I’m going to need your man card.

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