By SheelaR

Let’s talk about the ongoing conversation (or should I say hate) surrounding Meghan Sussex. It’s fascinating how some people can’t seem to handle a Black woman confidently living her life in a way that doesn’t fit their narrative of who she should be. Seriously, it’s like seeing a black woman exude luxury, softness, power, and vulnerability throws some people into a tailspin. Why is that? 

Let’s break it down. Meghan has stepped into her royal role and fully embraced her identity with grace, but for some, it’s more about her being a woman of color than any actual privilege she enjoys. It’s wild to think that her very existence challenges the status quo for some. They want her to fit into a stereotype, but she absolutely refuses. 

It’s evident that there’s an underlying frustration there. Meghan’s “soft life” — which involves self-care, advocacy, and high-profile events — looks downright aspirational to many. But instead of trying to learn from it, her detractors look for new reasons to throw shade. Maybe it’s the fact that she’s doing it all with a level of confidence and poise that they feel entitled to but haven’t been able to grasp. It’s easier to lash out than to confront the discomfort of that realization, right? 

The reality is that Meghan’s Blackness challenges a lot of folks’ preconceived notions about who deserves to occupy spaces of power, privilege, and softness. It makes them uneasy in a way that’s more than just jealousy; it’s about the fear of losing their grasp on societal norms that have been in place for a long time. When a Black woman not only steps into those spaces but dominates them, it shines a light on all the problematic expectations surrounding race, gender, and success. 

So here’s the truth: Instead of hating, maybe take a step back and do some soul-searching. What is it about Meghan that makes you so uncomfortable? It’s not just about her title or success; it’s about her challenging everything that some folks thought they understood about the world. Encouraging a celebration of her journey, her strength, and her vulnerability could actually be a step toward progress. Remember, her story isn’t just about her; it’s about all of us evolving.